1. Etiquette is outdated
Etiquette is arguably more relevant today than ever before. With new forms of electronic communication, gender equality, international travel and social media, there are new etiquette rules to adapt to our changing world. We are so attached to our devices and children are less experienced than ever in communicating in person, how to eat around a table and socialising without checking a phone.
2. Etiquette is stuffy and elitist
Etiquette is for everyone, and you do not have to have a penny to learn or practise it. Etiquette has nothing to do with status- it is about taking care of others, making them feel comfortable and respected.
3. Etiquette is mainly about dining in fancy venues.
Eating with manners shows respect for the host and fellow diners. It does not matter if you are eating at a fast-food restaurant, at someone’s home or a more formal setting, etiquette over a meal remains an important aspect of social and business etiquette.
4. People who set the table correctly and eat in a posh manner must have good etiquette.
Having the ‘persona’ of someone with etiquette does not grant you good etiquette. You can be immaculately dressed, well-groomed and poised, however if you are unfriendly and ignore people, then your etiquette is far from refined.